Balance, #ButchQueenBookClub & B-Boy Blues Listen while reading: The Dress — Dijon It’s Sunday, I’m on maybe my favorite train ride — the Acela back to New York from Boston — and this week was a lot of things. For one, it was my one year anniversary at the company…

For this little piece of real-estate I’ve carved out on the internet, I’ve been intentional about only highlighting things I like because it forces me to seek out things that bring me joy. That said, I’m writing tonight in response to a review that’s exhaustive in its critique of Nia…

First of all this entire post is one massive f*cking spoiler so please stop reading if you care about the season finale of Loki and have not watched it. There are also semi-spoilers/speculation about Ant-Man toward the end. The last important caveat being that I’m a pretty passive Marvel fan…

First Things First Having spent 10+ years on Twitter, 15+ years on Facebook (and MySpace, and Black Planet, and Dallas Peeps, and Xanga, and…), and after frequently and ruthlessly curating my online experience — I realized that despite my best efforts, the quality of my time online was getting worse…

or The Trouble With Saying Goodbye — Mama used to make this dessert when we were kids, lemon bars for the first day of summer vacation. They were like the perfect hit of sweet and tart, the kind that clenched your jaw, and I used to love eating them ice cold. On days when it was really…

‘Montero (Call Me By Your Name)’ is the perfect reintroduction — I watched the “Montero (Call Me By Your Name)” video no less than five consecutive times when it dropped at midnight last Friday, March 26. When I randomly couldn’t sleep at 6 a.m. later that morning (symptoms of surviving a pandemic), I rolled over and watched it some more. I…